33 years old Female from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania (PA), USA
For me BDSM is a beautiful form of self expression and sensuality. It's also a fun way to play as an adult.
I particularly enjoy seeing my sub looking exhausted and happy by the end of our session or getting a great review as a result. The whole lifestyle is such a joy to me and being about to share that with my slave is also a great source of happiness for me.
I see myself as a benevolent Mistress. I don't need to foot stomp, scream or make absurd demands. I understand the second you walk into my playroom you are giving me the power and control which I handle with great care.
My favorite outfit is a purple velvet and lace teddy. It holds sentimental value for me because it was the first outfit I bought at full price from a sex shop with the money I had made as a dominatrix, which is what I genuinely love doing. It's not my 9 to 5 job, it's my life, and that is what makes me different.
And I also love it if both parties leave so satisfied they can't wait for the next session. Then I can call that a great session, and that always inspires me.
I do have plans for the future – despite everything that’s going on. I have subs that love queening, so I intend to get a proper smoother box within the next 6 months. I'll also be getting some more professional photos done.
For subs who intend to visit, you should know that some things are not acceptable. For example, I don't take SAS i.e. a Smart Ass Sub. If you have an attitude problem either check it at the door or don't bother coming in or wasting my time. One thing I will not accept is disobedience.
I warn you - if you disobey me it will be your last session.
If you are thinking of coming to visit I can make you an enticing offer. I will explore your dark, strange, perverted or embarrassing fantasies and desires, free of judgement or stigma. Expect a fun and exciting roller coaster with someone who enjoys it as much if not more than you.