53 year old Female from Hartford, Connecticut (CT), USA
Connecticut Mistress Suzanne is beautiful, erotic, sensual, and sadistically playful all at the same time!
As part of my journey through the kink subculture, I have had my own experiences as a bottom, submissive, switch, and masochist. I believe that these roles have helped me gain a significant amount of perspective, which in turn has made me a more compassionate, knowledgeable, and intuitive Mistress and Domme. You won't need to worry because I am also a skilled tour guide for anxious first-timers like yourself.
The Joy of BDSM
I believe that BDSM has the potential to be a path to spiritual awakening as well as personal healing on many different levels. One of my favorite things to do is to share the joy of BDSM play with others who are interested in learning about and experimenting with this wonderful form of human sexuality.
BDSM is much more than just kinky sex, and it is not simply about "power exchange", or the act of whipping or otherwise tormenting a sub. My professional BDSM sessions are about exchanging erotic energy with another human being while also providing service to that person. When I meet someone, especially a new person, I immediately want to form a connection with them. After that, I work hard to figure out what makes that person tick while simultaneously adapting the situation to meet our individual and shared requirements and preferences.
When other people's hopes, wishes, or fantasies come true, I find it absolutely delightful to feel a sense of shared joy. It is amazing and wonderful for me to see someone's eyes light up as we participate in an activity that they may have feared would be horrible, but which they instead find to be surprisingly delightful and pleasant. This is something I get to witness often, and it never ceases to amaze and delight me. The greatest joy in the world for me would be to be able to take another person further than they could have ever imagined, all while maintaining a sense of trust and security in the process.