50 years old Female from Hartford, Connecticut (CT), USA
Beautiful, delightfully cruel, erotic, sensual, and playfully sadistic!
My kink journey has included my own experiences as a bottom, submissive / switch and masochist which I believe has given me a great deal of insight, making me a more compassionate & knowledgeable and intuitive Mistress / Domme. I am also an excellent guide for nervous newcomers so you will be in good hands.
I feel that BDSM can be a vehicle to spiritual awakening and personal healing on several levels and I very much enjoy sharing the joy of BDSM play with others that wish to learn about and experience this wonderful expression of human sexuality.
BDSM is much more than just kinky sex, and it is not simply about “power exchange” or the act of whipping or otherwise tormenting a sub. For me, my professional BDSM sessions are about erotic energy exchange and service to another human being. When I top someone, especially someone new, I want to build a connection with them and then I strive to find out what makes that person tick while tailoring the scene to our mutual needs and desires.
I love to feel a sense of shared joy when someone’s dreams or fantasies are made real. It is amazing and wonderful for me to watch someone’s eyes light up as we try an activity that they may have feared would be horrible, but instead they find is surprisingly delightful and pleasant. Taking someone further than they ever imagined but doing it safely & with a sense of trust & security is an ultimate joy for me.